by Dan Savage I’m a heterosexual cis woman in a monogamous marriage. My husband and I have always struggled to connect sexually, mostly because he has extreme anxiety that makes…
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By Dan Savage My boyfriend and I met online to explore our kinks. We’d both been in relationships with kink-shaming people who screwed with our heads. Since we weren’t thinking…
by Dan Savage My little dick has always held me back. I didn’t date in high school because I couldn’t stand the thought of girls discussing my tiny manhood. That…
by Dan Savage I’m a Seattle local who basically grew up reading your column. I think you’ve always given really sound advice, so I’m reaching out. My boyfriend and I…
by Dan Savage I met a guy right around the time my boyfriend dumped me. I met him on a dating site, but he was really only interested in my…
By Dan Savage My son has always liked handcuffs and tying people up as a form of play. He is 12 now, and the delight he finds in cuffing has…
by Dan Savage I don’t listen to your podcast religiously, but as soon as I told my best friend this story, she said, “That’s a question for Dan Savage!” Backstory:…
by Dan Savage I took Molly with my best bud. We wound up cuddling and telling each other everything. We didn’t mess around—we’re both straight guys—but one of the things…
by Dan Savage I’m a 42-year-old single, straight female who recently started dating a 36-year-old man in a somewhat exclusive, long-distance relationship. We have known each other for a short…
by Dan Savage My fiancé and I have been in a relationship for 11 years. His best friend is one of his exes, and that has always bothered me. What…